28 March, 2024

Her Final Lesson

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By Mark A. Taylor

What should we note about the life of Eleanor Daniel? Thousands of her former colleagues and students are telling what they remember about her now, after her death March 2 and her memorial service yesterday, March 6.

Eleanor Daniel

They speak of her skill and passion as a Christian teacher.

The remember her encouragement in their own teaching ministries.

They recite her faithfulness in Christian service.

They note the impact she made on three seminaries among the Christian churches and churches of Christ. (Some are quoting from Bruce Parmenter”™s tribute, published last December, in which he describes her work in higher education.)

They comment on her leadership in ministry situations where men usually kept control. But while she was always an encourager of women in ministry, this was not her theme or her cause. Her focus was on the mission, not on the barriers she encountered pursuing it.

The litany of Eleanor”™s accomplishments illustrates the way she always found and finished important tasks in the work of the church, in a day when women have been told much that they cannot do.

But it seems to me the most important fact to note about Eleanor”™s life is the way she died.

I had to read twice her last Facebook post February 28 to make sure I was absorbing the meaning:

Life is undergoing a big change. I have been on dialysis for over three years and had anticipated being on it for sometime more. That is not to be. In the progression of things it is important to stop dialysis. My final dialysis treatment was this past Friday. And I can anticipate a couple of weeks to live.

As matter-of-factly as we might predict the weather, this great teacher taught us how to approach death. Her post also spoke of peace, “the peace that passes understanding.” She said those living with her in the nursing home could see her peaceful spirit as she prepared quietly to give up living.

Perhaps it”™s simply a factor of temperament, this ability to look unemotionally at the realities of life and seek God”™s will in spite of them. But surely such an attitude can grow in any heart surrendered to God. I”™d like to believe I could learn this final lesson from Eleanor. I”™d like to think I would be willing simply to take up the task at hand regardless of the obstacles or pressures conspiring to distract or discourage me. I”™d like to think I could be as persistent in life and peaceful in the face of death as she was. What a tribute to her it would be if all who knew her could learn to submit to God as she did.

When we posted Parmenter”™s piece about her, I commented that only God knows how many lives have been influenced because of her. The tributes pouring through social media last weekend are just an indication of her life”™s impact. And now many are thanking God for the way she continued to teach us, right till the very end.

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Kelly Carr

Kelly Carr, former editor of The Lookout, enjoys sharing and shaping people’s stories as a writing and editing consultant in Cincinnati, Ohio (EditorOfLife.com).

3 Comments

  1. Pam Eubanks

    AMEN! Life on PURPOSE …His daughter, sharing life with sooo many!

  2. Michael G. Mullenix

    A very graceful lady. Did a seminar about 25 years ago with her on “Death and Dying.” Even though the subject was a bit somber, she found humor in all of life. See you in Heaven, AMEN!!!

  3. Jill Shaw

    Eleanor taught a Human Devleopment course I needed when pursuing my Masters at CCU. It was an evening class and I remember thinking that much of that info would have been beneficial earlier in my ministry, but I might not have appreciated it as much in my youth.

    Anyway, one evening I approached Eleanor before the lecture began and told her that I hoped to slip out during the break as I had a long drive ahead of me that night. With an eyebrow raised, she asked where I was off to.

    I told her I was speaking in chapel at Johnson (Bible College) University the next morning and hoped to get to Knoxville that night.

    She smiled, nodded and suggested I take off right after she’d made a few announcements about the next assignment and some admin stuff that we all needed to know. Eleanor’s encouraging nod and satisfied smile encouraged this woman in ministry, and I drove through the evening knowing I went with her blessing.
    Courage shared has no boundary.

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