Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Mr. Earl and One of My Favorite Worship Songs

I was downstairs talking with Mr. Earl a few moments ago. He comes every week to, "Hour of Power", a Bible Study taught by our Minister to Seniors, where he will make a request that he makes every week: to sing "Victory in Jesus."

In the past 17 months I've been at Christ's Church Mr. Earl has made a point of speaking to me every time we've seen each other. He's been such an amazing blessing to me and has encouraged me, so much.

He's a fascinating man. He's about to turn 85. He's a widower. He's a WW2 veteran who flew bomber missions over Germany. He sings in the choir. He volunteers at a hospital. He's battling cancer while still loving Jesus--and his people--passionately.

He's such a blessing.

So, this morning we're talking about life, faith, WW2, and how much he enjoys hugging the single ladies in his class :) when he mentioned his son. I knew that his son was a worship leader, but I didn't know much more than that. This morning I asked for his son's name so I could Google his ministry.

I couldn't believe what I found.

About four years ago, before our small group, I saw a video of a worship song that blew me away. It was video of the song, "Days of Elijah." I was so moved by the song that the next day I asked our worship minister to find it and teach it to our church.

It's one of my--and my kids'--favorite worship songs.

Well, just a few minutes ago, when I Googled Mr. Earl's son, Paul Wilbur, I discovered that he's the one who sang that song on the video I saw.

How cool is that?!?

So, here you go . . . Mr. Earl's son leading "Days of Elijah."

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008

200th Post!

I can't believe it. This is my 200th post.

This is a big occasion calling for an important post.

Maybe I should tell you about how God provided for my boys and I to sit in amazing (and expensive) seats at the Dual 150's NASCAR races at Daytona a couple of weeks ago.

Or, maybe I should tell you about the amazing experience I had speaking at Grace Fellowship Church last weekend and how impressed I was with the friendliness of every one I met there and the excellence of the program.

Maybe I should tell you that I accidently discovered that my wife has put together the most incredible birthday present of all time and has arranged for us to go to Bristol in three weeks for--arguably--one of the most exciting NASCAR races of the season.

Maybe I should write about the spiritual roller-coaster my family and I are riding with God right now and how we're--as my friend Mark Atteberry says in the title of his amazing book--Walking with God on the Road We Never Wanted to Travel.

No, not yet.

Maybe I should just tell you that I still love Jesus Christ with every cell in my body and I'm so grateful for every moment I have to speak--and write--about his love.

And, maybe I should let you know that I'm especially grateful for you.

Thanks for reading.

Blessings!

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

On Knowledge and Caring

I don’t know if he ever said it, but I know he lived it: “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.”

In his presentation of the last night of Christ’s life John notes that, “Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God; so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing and wrapped a towel around his waist. After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash the disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him” (John 13:3-5, emphasis mine).

Jesus knew everything, but—unlike us—he didn’t allow that to hinder his ministry to those in need. Lost people knew how much Jesus loved them. What about you? Do lost people know how much you care or do they only hear how much you know?

Monday, February 11, 2008

10 Questions With Bob Russell

Owensboro Christian Church posted the answer to 10 questions they asked Bob Russell.

Bob Russell is the former senior minister of Southeast Christian Church (Louisville, KY). By the time he retired in June 2006, the church had grown to an average of 18,300 weekend attendees. Southeast Christian Church was started in 1962 and grew tremendously during Bob’s tenure.

10Q WITH BOB RUSSELL


1Q = When you were the pastor of Southeast Christian Church, what was the chain of command from the senior pastor to the church volunteers?
Our flow chart showed:
Christ as the Chief Shepherd
the elders as the undershepherds
the senior pastor as a paid elder whose task is preaching and teaching
a leadership team consisting of 6-7 team leaders
and about 30 ministry heads
Among the thousands of volunteers were what we called 401 volunteers who were responsible for recruiting and training other volunteers.

2Q = For big decisions, what was Southeast Christian Church’s decision making process?
Major decisions were made by the board of elders - made up of lay leaders within the church and the senior minister. Probably most recommendations for ministry came from the staff to the elders by way of the senior minister. But we acknowledged that the elders were the overseers of the ministry and had the ultimate authority.


3Q = What was the most effective thing Southeast Christian Church did to reach people during your time as the senior pastor?
Most evangelism that took place was simply one-on-one evangelism. We tried to make each program so effective that church members would find it easy to invite others to come and participate. This included the worship service as well as support groups, sports activities, children’s ministry etc.
Two of the most effective evangelistic outreaches were:
The annual Easter pageant that drew over 70,000 people each spring.
The radio ministry. WHAS radio, an 80,000 watt station, carried the previous week’s sermon at 8:00 a.m. on Sunday morning for 25 years. WFIA, the local religious station carried sermons daily at 7:30 a.m. (drive time). Radio proved to be a very effective outreach for us.

4Q = How did you maintain quality control while pastoring such a large church?
In programming one of our core values from the beginning was to try to do everything with excellence. In the book When God Builds A Church, one of the chapters is on the importance of excellence in every phase of ministry.

Maintaining excellence became more difficult as the church became larger. I felt I did a pretty good job of passing down that value when the staff was one or two tiers. But it became more difficult for us as the staff became larger and there were 3-4 levels.

We included this theme in staff meetings and sermons. We tried to honor those who did well by giving, “Second Mile” awards in staff meetings, sending thank- you notes, voice mails, emails to volunteers who did well and mentioning them in sermons. We had entire staff meetings discussing examples of places where we encountered poor/great service and why it was meaningful.

I sometimes felt like I was a chronic complainer because I took notes of little things that had been neglected and would pass most of these on to the senior administrator at our weekly meeting on Monday morning. Sometimes I would call the team leader responsible for that area and draw attention to it. I’m sure they thought I was “nitpicking,” but I believe if you take care of the little things, the big things won’t be a problem.


In membership as a church gets larger it is very difficult to practice discipline and hold people accountable for their behavior – although small churches don’t do this well either.
We tried to be proactive and get as many people involved in small groups as possible so they would be accountable to other believers and grow. We had a very active discipline committee made up of 3-4 elders who tried to confront and correct flagrant sin in the camp.

With the erosion of values in the culture and the addition of many young Christians who have a long way to grow, it presents a myriad of challenges for the leadership to know what needs to be tolerated and what needs to be confronted and corrected. My preaching focused more on what is expected of Christians than it did just reaching out to seekers.

5Q = What is your leadership style?
My leadership style is high trust.
I believe that 90% of effective leadership is hiring the right person or recruiting the right volunteer, giving them basic guidance and making clear expectations and then turning them loose. I found gifted people would use their creativity and be more eager to do well if they “owned the program” and felt freedom and security than if they were trying to please me because I was hovering over them or micro-managing their efforts.

We did ask people to set personal and team goals and scheduled semi-annual reviews. If a staff member was not doing well, they were confronted with the issues during the review and notified of expectations. Occasionally some would be dismissed, but only after every opportunity to succeed.

I believe in the church we ought to/have to be more patient than in the business world. One reason for that is harmony is tremendously important in the church. Every staff dismissal creates some degree of disharmony and that has to be taken into consideration.

6Q = Who has influenced you the most as a leader?
Different people have influenced me at different stages of my life.

I believe that my influence stemmed from my preaching gifts more than from my leadership gifts. As I gained people’s confidence through preaching God’s Word they trusted me. That thrust upon me the need to lead by necessity. But I would not list “Leadership” as one of my primary gifts although it developed a little over time.

Therefore the people who influenced me most as a leader were those who impressed me with their preaching gifts. Bob Phillips, Olin Hay, J Wallace Hamilton, Charles Swindoll, Fred Craddock. As I grew older, I observed the leadership gifts of Bill Gaslin (a camp dean), Marvin Rickard (a megachurch minister), and President Reagan and learned by observing them.

7Q = What resources have had the biggest impact on how you do ministry?
Marvin Rickard’s book Let It Grow! influenced me considerably early on.
Joel Gregory’s book Too Great A Temptation and Jim Collin’s two books Built to Last and Good to Great influenced me about the need for a transition plan later on.

Twenty years ago when Southeast was running a little over a thousand I felt the need to network with other preachers of large churches in our movement. So I invited all the guys I knew who pastored large churches to come to Louisville for three days. They did and we had such a rich experience we decided to do it every year. That annual conference now invites about 125 ministers and their wives. Over half come each year and it was a rich time of fellowship and a great venue for sharing creative ideas and learning from each other’s leadership.

About 15 years ago, I attended a three day conference of seven megachurch ministers (Bill Hybels, Rick Warren, Bob Moorehead, Walt Kallestad) that proved to be influential in that I was encouraged to take a major risk involving 90 million dollars and relocate. It also underscored once again that God used different leadership styles and I shouldn’t try to emulate anyone else.

8Q = What is the greatest ministry lesson you have learned?
That God uses ordinary people in extraordinary ways if they honor His Word and keep their egos in check.

9Q = What do you think is the biggest challenge facing the church today?
To maintain a healthy balance of being culturally relevant and Biblically based. There is such a strong temptation to become so focused on reaching people where they are that we neglect telling them the tough truths of God’s Word – truths that potentially can turn them off because they are not politically correct.

10Q = What is the best advice you have for church leaders?
Determine where God has gifted you and stay with your strengths. Gather around you the most gifted people you can find and delegate as much to them as possible. Especially delegate in the areas of your weaknesses and get out of the way.

Trust that the Biblical organizational structure can work effectively. God ordained elders to be shepherds for a purpose – the combined wisdom of the group is greater than any one individual. So develop in-depth relationships with the elders so you are consistently on the same page. When you disagree be humble and submissive to their oversight.

Stay in one place as long as possible. There is a time to move, but make sure you are moving because of God’s call and not running from problems. Every place has problems. There is tremendous value in long-term ministry. If God is blessing where you are, be content.

Learn to keep the big picture. 95% of Southeast Christian Church is great. 5% is not so hot. In fact, 1% is downright nasty. My challenge as a leader was that 50% of my time was spent on correcting the 5% that wasn’t right, and I could lose the big picture. Step back periodically and see how God is blessing and give thanks. One of the reasons Ronald Reagan was an effective president is that he could deal with the most awful problems and yet be positive about how great a country America is. The preacher has to remind members of all the wonderful things God is doing even though we are confronted daily with disappointments.

New Life Church: Ted Haggard Should NOT Return to Vocational Ministry

New Life Church sent out a letter from Pastor Brady Boyd last week ahead of a press release to the general media. Evidently, Ted Haggard has asked to end his relationship with the New Life Church Restoration Team. The church has agreed; and the result was this press release:

Dear New Life Church family and friends,
Today, our church’s board of trustees will release a statement regarding the end of the restoration process for Ted Haggard. This process may receive some media attention, and I want you to hear of it from us before you read about it in the newspaper or hear it on the evening news.
Let’s continue to pray for Ted, Gayle, and their family.
God bless you,
Brady Boyd Senior Pastor New Life Church
Colorado Springs, CO


-- FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Ted Haggard’s leadership of New Life Church for many years was extraordinary and the depth of spiritual maturity that is found today in the church is in large part attributed to his leadership as the founding senior pastor.

In January 2007, Ted Haggard voluntarily agreed to enter a process of spiritual restoration. He has selected Phoenix First Assembly and Pastor Tommy Barnett as his local church fellowship and is maintaining an accountability relationship there. He has recently requested to end his official relationship with the New Life Church Restoration Team and this has been accepted by them.

New Life Church recognizes the process of restoring Ted Haggard is incomplete and maintains its original stance that he should not return to vocational ministry. However, we wish him and his family only success in the future.

Because spiritual restoration is a necessarily confidential process, the church does not anticipate that it, or its Overseers or Restorers, will make further comment about it.

Thursday, February 07, 2008

Lessons from Joseph's Life

A friend sent me this important reminder--from the life of Joseph--on dealing with unexpected detours:

There are three things evident in Joseph’s life that helped him deal with detours.

  1. He was a man of integrity. His life was full of injustices but Joseph never compromised his integrity and truth.
  2. He never lost sight of his dreams. He was able to see beyond the difficulties. God gave him a vision of what was to come: leadership. He never gave up on the big picture.
  3. He trusted God. Regardless of his circumstances, Joseph did not loose his faith. Even while in prison Joseph was revered, honored and successful. Eventually, Joseph was reunited with his family. And he was second in command of all of Egypt-for close to eighty years. But for thirteen long years he was detoured from his dreams. For the person in the middle of a detour, every minute seems like a lifetime.

Great Book On Evangelism

A few months ago I read a great book entitled, "Jim & Casper Go To Church: Frank conversation about faith, churches, and well-meaning Christians.




In a nutshell it's a book recounting what happended when a Christian and an atheist visited 11 churches in America. Some are big, some are small, but all are making a significant impact in the religious world today in one way or another.

One of the key questions that Matt Casper (a.k.a. "The Atheist") asks is, "Is this what Jesus told you guys to do?"

Great question.

I highly recommend this book to anyone interested in reaching lost people--especially Preachers.

I came across an interview from the authors of this book. In this interview--presented by Christ's Church in the Valley--you get the chance to hear Matt Casper say some interesting . . . and painful things about Christians and our typical approaches to evangelism.


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Tuesday, February 05, 2008

Kindness and Evangelism

Kindness is a manifestation of love that is sometimes withheld because it is difficult.

It’s easy to say that I love everyone in this world, but sometimes it is difficult to be kind to the angry man across the street by offering to mow his yard while he recovers from surgery.

It’s easy to say that I love everyone in this world, but sometimes it is difficult to be kind to the customer service representative on the other end of the phone who is trying to explain to me why the insurance company is not going to pay the claim.

It’s easy to say that I love everyone in this world, but—if we’re honest—we’d probably admit that it is sometimes difficult to be kind to the guy at work who seems intent on offending God with his words, thoughts, and actions, but unless and until we Christians are kind to lost people—they will never believe us when we tell them how much Jesus loves them.

Monday, February 04, 2008

Lost and Found

I know I'm kind of on a YouTube kick, but--I promise--this is the last one for a while.

After watching my niece and nephew's performance from the 2008 TCTC on YouTube I noticed this clip from Lost and Found.

Lost and Found is one of my favorite Christian comedy groups and this song--"Lions" (a.k.a. The Slinky Song)--is my favorite Lost and Found song.

I have a dream . . . of one day preaching a sermon on Daniel and the lion's den preceded by this song sung as special music by a robed choir.

Enjoy!

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Saturday, February 02, 2008

The Three Keys To Effective Evangelism

My research on evangelism has lead me to the doorsteps of "Get In Here Ministries" and the three keys to effective evangelism.

If we could master these three techniques I'm confident this world would be changed forever.

:)

A Proud Uncle

At the Tennessee Christian Teen Convention last month my niece and nephew, Jessi and Jedidiah Smith, were selected to perform a song they wrote called, "Eternity Now". I'm so proud of them!

Enjoy!